It was an ordinary day. Just finished celebrating the inauguration of King Willem-Alexander who succeeded to the throne in the Netherlands, replacing Queen Beatrix who abdicated the thrown. The event took place in Amsterdam, but the Dutch side of St. Maarten, which we are currently visiting and which is part of the Netherlands, had a series of programs to participate in the celebration. As far as Carol and me, we celebrated by shopping at D&K Gems on Front Street for a new ring for Carol. Jeff, son of the founder of D&K, and our "official island jeweler," helped put the special inaugural ring on her finger. Now, before I go any further, I need to tell you what transpired before we arrived in St. Maarten for our annual vacation to the Caribbean island. I found that our laptop computer that I had been using for quite a few years was just about shot. No longer held a charge and ran sooooo slow that I would probably miss some of my trips to the beach if I were to stay at the villa and post stories on my blog. So, I told Carol that if I bought a new MacBook Air, which would coordinate with all my desktop Mac programs, she could look for a piece of jewelry during out trip. She oiginally told me to buy the computer for Christmas for myself and she would get something she liked, but I needed a new lens for my camera, so I dropped the computer idea. But, I still had it in mind before vacation, so we made the deal. But hey, the jewelry cost more so as of now, I need something to catch up. I'm sure I'll find something sometime soon.
But anyway, Carol and I visited the culinary capital of the island, Grand Case, tonight for our evening meal. Great meal at Il Netuno with my favorite spinach and cheese stuffed ravioli in sage butter sauce. Actually just about anything on their menu would taste great in the sage butter sauce. While at the restaurant I took a photo of Carol with her new purchase. We later emailed the photo to our daughter in Maryland. Shortly after, while typing this story, on the top of my screen appeared a new email that had just arrived. She replied by saying, "I want that in the will! Love You." It was another extraordinary day in the life of an ordinary guy.
Tuesday, April 30, 2013
Monday, April 29, 2013
The "Dare I Take That Photo?" Story
It was an ordinary day. And on many ordinary days I'm out taking photos. Photos of just about anything and anybody. Photos for sale, photos for my blog and photos for personal use. But, the more I read about current laws, the more I am concerned that when I push the shutter release I may be infringing on some one's rights. As a rule I almost always ask someone if they would mind if I take their photo. I have been turned down very few times. To me it's only common courtesy to ask first. The Amish culture tell me that if I ask them if I can take a photo they must say no, but if I am discrete I can take it without asking. Tough at times to make the correct call. Right now I am on a Caribbean island that shares dual nationalities; being half Dutch and half French. Sint Maarten is the Dutch side of the island while St. Martin is the French side of the island. And, as far as I can figure, each side gives different rights to their citizens as far as having their photo taken while in public. In France, "Everyone has the right to respect for his private life," states Article 9 of France's civil code. But, it seems that the law is open to a judge's interpretation, because legislators have refused to define the concept of privacy in clear terms. Since St. Martin is a French territory, the laws of France apply which means Article 9 is in effect as I roam the streets of the capital city Marigot or walk the world famous beaches with my camera. And, as in France, the beaches are very liberal as to how and what to wear while bathing. On Orient Beach, many times considered one of the best beaches in the world, topless bathing is the norm, yet I enjoy taking photos on the beach for both recreation as well as to document my vacation. Now I should tell you that in the United States we do not have photography laws as does France, but at times photographers have been arrested for disorderly conduct for snapping a particular photo. On Orient Beach it is next to impossible to tell who may be a French citizen or who may be another nationality such as American. I do make sure, as best I can, that I do not include topless women in any photos I take to make sure I do not violate any one's rights or morals. On the far south end of Orient Beach is the au natural resort called Club O. As you approach this beach there is a very large sign telling you that you are entering the resort. On the sign they show the universal sign for no
photography. In years past they even displayed a placard with confiscated cameras which had a nail driven through them. There are security people who patrol this section of the beach to make sure no photos are taken. I do believe that people who frequent this beach do have the right not to have their photo taken and displayed all over the globe, but all beaches on the island are public, therefore, being a photographer, I believe I also have rights. Recently Aurelie Filippetti, minister of culture, argued that it it was unacceptable to prevent professional photographers from sharing their vision of the world with future generations. What would history be without photos to observe? Would you dare to take that photo? It was another extraordinary day in the life of an ordinary guy.
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Sunday, April 28, 2013
The "Hey, take it easy .......... there's enough sugar for everyone!" Story
The Sugar Bird |
Waiting in line for a bath! |
Saturday, April 27, 2013
The "It's as if God created the devil ......... gave it JAWS!!! Story
It was an ordinary day. 7:00 am and I'm sitting in a car dealership waiting to have the oil changed in my Mountaineer. Bought the car in 2006 at the dealership and with the car came free car washes whenever I wanted, free oil changes when they were due and free state inspections. All this for as long as I own the car and they are still in business. Scared me a few years ago when Mercury stopped making cars, but the dealer changed to Mitsubishi and still offers the same freebie deals on those cars. As I'm waiting, I picked up a copy of Reminisce, the magazine for us older folks who enjoy reminiscing about the good old times. There on page 63, I know that's the page since I have it in front of me, is a story about "Hitchcock & Spielberg". No celebration of Universal Pictures would be complete without the contributions of these two. In 1963, The Birds attacked and in 1975 Jaws scared the crap out everyone. I remember The Birds, which was in black and white, as being exciting and scary, but I remember in full color the panic that was created by Jaws. For years I was half-afraid to go in the water when we ventured to the Chesapeake for vacation in the summer. My wife tried to assure me that there were no great white sharks in the Chesapeake. But when we started traveling to Hawaii and the Caribbean it was a another story. I still scan the water for fins every time I head in for a dip when we are on vacation at one of the islands in the Caribbean. I know the chances are pretty slim that there could be a great white shark in the water, but we do see other species of sharks when we snorkel, but I am still on the lookout for bigger fins. It wasn't long after I read Peter Benchley's novel of the same name that I went to see Steven Spielberg's production of Jaws. A giant human-eating great white shark was attacking beach goers on Amity Island, a fictional summer resort town in New England. The local police chief, Roy Scheider, enlisted the help of marine biologist, Richard Dreyfuss, and local shark hunter, Robert Shaw, to find the great white. The movie was shot mostly on location on Martha's Vineyard, Massachusetts and I'm sure after seeing the movie, the residents of that island had to be scared s#*tless when they went to the beach featured in the movie. I'll bet there are still some people, even after 38 years, who won't venture far into the water. I know I wouldn't. Even hearing the music still send chills and shivers down my spine! The scene where Scheider kills the great white is one of my all-time favorite movie scenes. Jaws became the highest-grossing film in history at the time. I know I was certainly grossed out by it in a few of the scenes. It won several awards for its soundtrack and editing, and it is often cited as one of the greatest films of all time. I later saw a documentary on how they made the mechanical shark and made it look so realistic. Even watching the documentary was kinda frightening, but then again I fear most all fish that try to eat me. It was another extraordinary day in the life of an ordinary guy. PS - There were a few other pages missing in the Reminisce magazine before I even took it out of the rack! Also, click on the link to see some scary scenes from the movie ....... http://youtu.be/0zkYRD51I34
Friday, April 26, 2013
The "OK, Now It's Getting Scary!!" Story
Scene we experienced on our trip to Philipsburg. |
As we passed we saw a small red car that was riddled with bullet holes, some as large as a baseball. "I wonder if this is the place where the two people were shot yesterday?" I asked Carol as we passed. Late evening, two days ago, a young woman was shot when a gun was fired through a bedroom window of a home in the French Quarter. Allegedly the gunshot was meant for her boyfriend. The woman had to be evacuated to either Guadeloupe or Martinique for additional medical treatment. Then, several hours later, in the early morning of the next day, it was stated that friends or family of the injured woman took revenge on the original shooter by shooting him in the leg and setting fire to his truck. The shooting of the car that we saw is said to also be related to the other two previous shootings and possibly related to a dispute between individuals or a gang and may be all tied to drugs. I guess we were lucky to have gotten a late start on our trip to Philipsburg or we may have been in the line of fire. Almost like living in the wild, wild West years and years ago. May have to take the long way to Philipsburg the next time. It was an extraordinary day in the life of an ordinary guy. PS - photos are from the Herald website.
Thursday, April 25, 2013
The "Lancaster's Square" Story
The "Soldiers and Sailors Monument" in Center Square in downtown Lancaster in 1874 on the day it was dedicated. The original stockade fencing can be seen surrounding the monument. |
The stockade fencing was replaced with iron fencing seen here. |
Another view of Center Square with the monument on the right. |
The monument as it now appears in Penn Square with concrete around it. |
Wednesday, April 24, 2013
The "Faces of Strangers #12" Story
Paolo working on his jewelry. |
Paolo showing me his classic car shirt. |
Tuesday, April 23, 2013
The "I'm Gonna Live My Life Like A Jimmy Buffett Song" Story
It was an ordinary day. First evening on the Caribbean island of St. Martin and we are making a change in our seating at Le Piment Restaurant in Orient Village. Seems likes the rain is blowing just enough to make our French bread turn to mush and our Lipton's peach tea taste even more watered down that the glass of ice. Our waitress grabs our salad while we head into the interior of the restaurant, away from the blowing wind and rain on the outdoor seating area. We sit down next to a younger couple who seem to be in their .... well they are much younger that we are. I immediately notice that the girl is texting. And, texting. And ..... I think you get the idea. Nothing bothers me more that being with someone who constantly has a cell phone in front of their face or attached to their ear. How anti-social can you get? Anyway, after our meal Carol and I start talking about the old Village Night Club in Lancaster, PA. I told her it was on the corner of Christian and Chestnut Streets in downtown Lancaster. As we continued our conversation our neighbor, who was with the cell phone girl, asked us if we were talking about Philadelphia. He was from Philly and was a bartender in a club, but didn't think Christian and Chestnut intersected in the city. After telling him we were from nearby Lancaster, we had a nice conversation about his life, and yes, about his girlfriend's life. The more we talked and I listened to his young life's story, I thought I had heard this story before. Later that evening, after returning back to our villa, I picked up the book I had started reading around the pool a few hours earlier and realized our dinner conversation with the young couple matched the book I was reading. I'm Gonna Live My Life Like A Jimmy Buffett Song was written by Anthony Bjorklund and his title character, Jack Danielson, reminded me so much of our dinner partner and his girlfriend. In the book Jack, a former bartender, works for a Public Relations firm and hates his job.
Anthony Bjorklund |
Monday, April 22, 2013
The "Murder in Paradise" Story
Victims Michael and Thelma King |
PS - After recently arriving on the island for vacation, Carol and I traveled from the Dutch side of the island (Sint Maarten) to the French side of the island (St. Martin). Or journey took all of 20 minutes, but at times it can seem as if the two sides are light years apart. We asked our realtor, who was showing us to our villa, what she knew of the trial in Philipsburg and she had no idea what had happened or when it had happened. Evidently it takes more than a year for news to travel less than half an hour in the Caribbean. Known as "island time" I guess.
Sunday, April 21, 2013
The "Fort Amsterdam is under siege!" Story
The remains of Fort Amsterdam |
The Divi Resort with the red rooftops in the center rear with Fort Amsterdam above it. |
The chain-link fence and sign erected by the Divi Resort. |
Saturday, April 20, 2013
The "Gilders, Euros, US Dollars or Credit Card?" Story
It was an ordinary day. Shopping on the Dutch side of the island of Sint Maarten/St. Martin which is an interesting experience. Reason: the official currency on the Dutch side is the Netherlands Antilles Gilder while the official currency on the French side of the island is the Euro. Luckily for me, both sides happily accept the US dollar. The Guilder is pinned to the US Dollar so the rate of between 1.78 and 1.80 remains constant, but I must check the Euro/Dollar exchange rate before buying items on the French side of the island. When Carol and I first started to travel to this dual nationality country in the Caribbean, we decided it would be easier to exchange our US Dollars for Euros at our AAA store in Lancaster, PA. On the first trip after that we found it to be a mistake. Some stores and restaurants on the French side of the island honor $1=1 Euro so we ended up losing money being that the Euro is valued higher than the US Dollar. ATM machines usually dispense Guilders or US Dollars on the Dutch side while dispensing only Euros on the French side. As of this writing, the US Dollar is valued so that one Euro is worth $1.30; an item purchased for 1 Euro would cost me $1.30 in US Dollars. Starts to add up by the end of vacation. On our trip today to shop at the Grande Marche for groceries for our vacation, the bill amounted to $286.38 Guilders, but after handing the clerk my Visa credit card and telling her I wanted to pay in US Dollars, she showed me the cost to my card as being $159.10. Every item in the store carries three prices; one each for US Dollars, Guilders and Euros. Not to hard to get used to after you have shopped at the grocery store several times, but at first it was a challenge. And, the prices aren't that much different from the US for the products we purchased, and considering that most items are imported on the island, the prices are reasonable. I did buy a container of ice cream that was made in St. Thomas, USVI for almost seven dollars, but the St. Thomas Dairy orange pineapple has a great taste that you can't find in the states. I paid my bill at the Grande Marche with my Capital One credit card, making sure to tell the clerk one more time that I wanted to pay it in US Dollars. Paying with my Capital One Visa card is not a big
deal, since Capital One is probably the only company that doesn't charge an exchange rate for out of the country purchases that are charged in currency other than US Dollars. Not only that I build up points I can use to pay for other items such as airfare of car rental. In comparison, for our evening meal we traveled to Little Italy Restaurant in Orient Village, which is close to our villa on the French side of the island, and was charged 42.54 Euros for the meal which cost me $53.39 in US Dollars. Traveling out of the country on vacation is both interesting and enjoyable for Carol and me and after the first few times I found that currency rates don't create a problem as they once did. Oh, the joys of international travel! It was another extraordinary day in the life of an ordinary guy.
Friday, April 19, 2013
The "Waitin' for '42'" Story
It was an ordinary day. Watching "Meet the Press" on NBC and found the small segment featuring Ken Burns, Harrison Ford, David Gregory and Rachel Robinson to be extremely interesting. Since baseball has always been my favorite sport, watching Rachel talk about her late husband was immensely enjoyable for me. In case you don't know by now who Rachel Robinson may be, she is the wife of former baseball star/civil rights activist Jackie Robinson. The movie "42" is going to be released soon and quite a bit of hype is preceding the opening of the film. Harrison Ford played the owner of the Brooklyn Dodgers who signed Jackie to a contract in 1947. At the time I was too young to realize what impact that would hold for the sport, but as I grew in age and in the sport, I gained more insight into what that momentous occasion really meant to not only baseball, but to the civil rights movement. As I have rehashed a few times in other stories, my first involvement with baseball was in 1956, nine years after Jackie had signed with the Dodgers. At that time my dad took me to the south end of the city of Lancaster for tryouts for the Schick Midget-Midget baseball team. Little did he realize that the team consisted of mostly black players. To me, it was no big deal, since they loved baseball as much as I did. I had one of the greatest experiences that year while playing the game I love so much with a great bunch of black and white guys I grew to love. To me it was a natural to have any color player on the team, as long as they loved the game and could play on the same level. As I grew and started to realize that Mr. Robinson had broken the color barrier in the Major Leagues, I found it hard to believe that it hadn't been like that forever. I don't believe that today's black and Hispanic children appreciate what Jackie did for them back in the late 40s. They have, just the same as I did, grown up in baseball with no racial barriers. Too bad that the sport of baseball can't be carried over into the rest of our lives as well. I realize that there are still many barriers for the black and Hispanic cultures that haven't shown the progress that sports has accepted. Maybe I never will see racial injustice be corrected in my lifetime. Pretty hard to believe that to be true. As for the movie "42", I can hardly wait to see it. Written and directed by Brian Helgeland, "42" is said to be mostly an unexceptional film about an exceptional man. The movie is said to remind us that black Americans fought and died for their country in World War II, but returned home to a country with separate drinking fountains and a ban on Negroes in the major leagues. The movie depicts Jackie Robinson's first year in the majors and all the turmoil and racist fans as well as players and managers which he has to maneuver through in order to succeed in the game of baseball and life. He is considered one of the greatest baseball players of all time. Not just black players, but baseball players. I can hardly wait to see the film. I'm sure I will have more memories to share after I watch the film. It was an ordinary day in the life of an ordinary guy.
Thursday, April 18, 2013
The "Random Act of Kindness Day" Story
It was an ordinary day. Talking with my wife's friend Marg on the phone about something really neat that her daughter and grandkids did the other day. Marg's daughter's name is Alice and she has to children, one boy and one girl. Both are in elementary school and both children, along with their mother participated in a "Random Acts of Kindness" day that took them from a nursing home to a free medical clinic, all in one day. Alice wanted her children to know how fortunate they are to have everything they have, and that there are less fortunate people who could benefit from a "Random Act of Kindness." Alice works for the Berks County, PA Intermediate Unit program as an elementary teacher of children with disabilities, so she first had to coordinate the day that she had planned for her and her children. She first went to her children's elementary school principal and explained what she wanted to do and the principal thought it was a great idea. The night before the family's special day, they baked cookies that would be used for the first two stops the following day. First stop on the "Random Act of Kindness" tour was at a nursing home near their house. They presented the residents with some cookies and conversation. Later they would receive a note of thanks from the nursing home for their "Random Act of Kindness". Next stop was at the Denver Elementary School where the children were students. Dropped off some cookies in the faculty room with a note to tell the teachers how special they really were. I'm sure some teachers saw them and told them how special they were. Next stop was a laundromat in Ephrata, PA to leave bags with quarters in them so the patrons of the laundromat could have their clothes washed for free that day. A note was included in the bags to tell them about their "Random Act of Kindness" day. The Dollar Store was next on the agenda where they left small bags with a dollar in them and a note telling the finder to use the $1 to buy something that would brighten their day. Can you imagine by now the excitement and good feelings that the children as well as Alice must have felt by creating all the "Random Act of Kindness". Next stop was at an animal shelter where they dropped off kitty litter and food for the animals. I can just imagine how thrilled the workers in the shelter must have been with the donation and their "Random Act of Kindness". I know the high that I feel when Carol and I drop off bags of cat food to a very kind lady on the island of St. Martin who cares for the stray cats on the island. In Hershey, PA is located the Penn State Hershey Medical Center where children with cancer are treated and a Ronald McDonald House is nearby for the families of those children to stay. The next "Random Act of Kindness" was dropping off toys for the sick children at the Ronald McDonald House. Not just any toys, but Margaret's children's own toys that were still in great shape and would be better used by the children with an illness. The next stop during their busy day was to the Ephrata Library to donate still usable books to the children's room in the library. For the final stop of the day Alice did some previous research online to see what the Lebanon, PA medical clinic could make use of in their care for the less fortunate. Aspirin was one of the top items on the list so the three good Samaritans made their last donation of Aspirin to the Lebanon Free Clinic. What a great "Random Act of Kindness" day this family experienced. I'm sure that not only the two children, but their mother learned more today than they would have at work or at school. What a neat idea, Alice. I'm impressed with your parenting. Bravo, job well done!! It was another extraordinary day in the life of an ordinary guy.
Wednesday, April 17, 2013
The "Vacation Jitters? Nah!!" Story
It was an ordinary day. Packing! Soon time for Carol and me to head back to the islands as Jimmy sings in his song. Have my date book colored in according to the color of the sky and water that will await us when we land in St. Martin. Days and days of yellow umbrellas and orange beach chairs are in our future. Now all we have to do is hope that the skies cooperate and the airplane lands on the runway as it's supposed to do. We had to buy new suitcases since the old ones were getting pretty shabby. Mine had a few tears as well as one of the outside pockets had been dislodged by a baggage-handler in one of the airports we travel though. Carol's suitcase had the metal framework compromised and it bent inward toward the luggage compartment rather then along the sides as it is supposed to do. Oh well, they lasted for a few years. We don't spend hundreds on luggage, since no matter how careful we are with it, the airports seem to use it for target practice. New suitcases weigh only about 4 pounds each with hard molded sides. We'll see what happens to them after departure from Baltimore with a stop in Miami and then on to St. Martin. Hope the sides are still molded in a suitcase shape by our last carousel stop. I recently found a photo online that shows the airport runway in St. Martin. This runway is usually in the top 10 on just about any survey taken which talks about scary runways. As the pilot prepares to land he or she must plan to catch the front end of the runway as close as possible to the start because of the short distance of the runway. To top that off, there is a beach with people, chairs and sand on it directly in front of the runway separated only by a 10 foot high chain-link fence. I stopped worrying about the landing years ago. Figure the plane is bigger than anything in front of it as we cross the azure blue water leading up to the pure-white beach. The photo that I found shows the far end of the runway after the planes land. There is only one runway so after planes land they must turn around at the far end, head back up the runway halfway, then turn in towards the airport common. No problems as long as the air-traffic controllers don't allow another plane to land too soon or one to take-off too soon. This photo below shows an American Airlines plane that had just landed and has turned around to head to the airport while a KLM Jumbo Jet if preparing for take-off. Neat shot!! I can' wait to be in the American Airlines Jet that is just arriving. It was another extraordinary day in the life of an ordinary guy.
Four engine Jumbo Jet landing over Maho Beach. |
Click on photo to enlarge. American Airlines jet in the foreground while the KLM jet prepares for take-off at the far end at Maho Beach. |
Tuesday, April 16, 2013
The "Memories of a Best Neighbor" Story
Duane H. "Hank" Harvey |
Monday, April 15, 2013
The "Two Down and One To Go" Story
It was an ordinary day. Just got back from the hardware store with the bad news. My Black and Decker 8" power saw just bit the dust. I was using it last week to rebuild the top of a picnic table that is part of our deck behind our house when it just wouldn't turn on. Took it to the hardware store for what I thought was a new set of brushes, but they told me the problem I was experiencing wouldn't be corrected with brushes. They could take it apart and see what the problem might be, but that would cost me $50 for the service. Now I might have done that with a fairly new saw, but this one was a gift from my wife in 1967 and parts might not be available anymore to repair it. That was the first Christmas we shared together as husband and wife in our apartment at Manor House in Lancaster, PA. We agreed to buy each other one big item and very little else, since we were just getting started in our marriage and needed the money for other items. Carol bought me the saw and I got her a Viking sewing machine. But, by buying the sewing machine I also got a bonus. A free Husqvarna gas chain saw. Wow, I snapped
that up pretty fast. Carol loved the sewing machine and I got a really neat saw that lasted almost 50 years to go along with a chain saw that cut many a tree branch off and damaged a few more items that I didn't know were in my path as I operated the chain saw. The chain saw lasted at the most 10 years before it ran out of steam, but my power saw lasted almost my lifetime. And, I used it for just about everything. Used it when my cousin's husband and I installed siding on houses in the late 60s and 70s, for building a porch on the side of my home on Janet Ave., for taking the 3rd floor of that home and making it into a bedroom/bathroom/closet combo for our two sons, and for a variety of other construction projects. As for the Viking, it still works fine, but Carol has decided it is best left in the closet, since she isn' making curtains, baby clothes, etc. anymore. I guess you could say we got a lifetime of service from our initial Christmas gifts we gave to each other back in '67. It was another extraordinary day in the life of an ordinary guy.
that up pretty fast. Carol loved the sewing machine and I got a really neat saw that lasted almost 50 years to go along with a chain saw that cut many a tree branch off and damaged a few more items that I didn't know were in my path as I operated the chain saw. The chain saw lasted at the most 10 years before it ran out of steam, but my power saw lasted almost my lifetime. And, I used it for just about everything. Used it when my cousin's husband and I installed siding on houses in the late 60s and 70s, for building a porch on the side of my home on Janet Ave., for taking the 3rd floor of that home and making it into a bedroom/bathroom/closet combo for our two sons, and for a variety of other construction projects. As for the Viking, it still works fine, but Carol has decided it is best left in the closet, since she isn' making curtains, baby clothes, etc. anymore. I guess you could say we got a lifetime of service from our initial Christmas gifts we gave to each other back in '67. It was another extraordinary day in the life of an ordinary guy.
Sunday, April 14, 2013
The "Heard You Coming" Story
Clark shoes that squeak when I walk. |
Pair of Clark "Originals" that the back flap always goes up on the left shoe. |
My second pair of "Originals" that have a firm crepe sole. |
Saturday, April 13, 2013
The "Have I Got A Gravesite For You!" Story
It as an ordinary day. Doing some research on the burial plots that I found that I have evidently inherited from my mom and dad when they died. Seems that they inherited them from my dad's mom and now I am stuck with them. Why so gloom? I have no idea what to do with them. My "Nannan" (grandmother) purchased a piece of ground known as lot No. 138 in Riverview Burial Park in the southeast of Lancaster, Pennsylvania. Lot No. 138, as per survey of the said Riverview Burial Park, contains eight graves, together with all the privileges and appurtenances thereto belonging, and every part and parcel thereof, was purchased by Mrs. Grace Woods on April 26, 1926 from the Riverview Burial Park Association. She paid $117.50 for the eight gravesites. I had no idea what appurtenances meant so I "googled" it and found that it meant: an incidental right (as a right-of-way) attached to a principal property right and passing in possession with it. Help any? Well, I assume that Nannan bought Lot No. 138 in 1926 in order to bury her husband Joseph whom I never had the honor to meet. My granddad died in an industrial accident at the Lancaster Post Office where he worked. He was 42 years old when he died and my dad, his son, was only 6 years old at the time. Pretty tough on my Nannan, since she had four young children who now had no father. In a file folder that was among the remains of my mom and dad's belongings I found the deed to the burial sites as well as another letter from the Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home that had a small drawing showing the sites with numbers on them. In grave #6 is buried my Nannan who died in 1974, in grave #5 is my grandfather Joseph and in grave #7 is my uncle Clair, my dad's brother, who died in an automobile accident in 1931 when he was 16 years old. Nannan must have been a saint to have been able to survive all the tragedies she had at such a young age. Also enclosed in the file folder were two notices that were placed in the Lancaster Newspaper notifying owners in the Conestoga Memorial Park and the Riverview Burial Park to contact a number to update their records. Dad had written the date Feb. 10, 1987 on the one and 2-21-03 on the other. He always dated everything that he read and kept for his files. Thanks, dad! And then I also found receipts for the headstone that Nannan had purchased for the gravesite. That cost more than all eight gravesites with a price tag of $180.00. Looking through history is interesting, but now to my dilemma; what do I do with these gravesites? Carol and I have burial rights in the cemetery of our historical churchyard in downtown Lancaster where my mom and dad are interred. My brother had no interest in the sites and I didn't know what to do with them so I called the number listed on the one notice from the graveyard. They asked me who purchased the sites and after I told them, they asked if my father had any brothers and sisters. My dad had the brother that was deceased and two sisters. I was told that any children they might have would also be entitled to the sites. My Aunt Doris married and had three step-children and I was told they don't count, since they are not blood relations. So I guess my Aunt Lillian's two children, my cousins Judy and George, would also have the right to them. Made a call to both and neither one cared to have them, so I was free to do with them what I wanted. I am hoping that my church will be able to accept them and pass them on to needy families who may care to have them. Just going to have to be some legal procedures in order to donate them to the church. Soon there may be some strangers visiting in the cemetery with my Nannan, Grandfather and Uncle. Hope all goes well. It was another extraordinary day in the life of an ordinary guy.
Notices in the newspaper |
Monument receipt |
Notice from the funeral home showing the location of used sites. |
Deed to the sites |
Riverview Burial Park in southeast Lancaster, PA |