The "My Hat Goes Off To Angela & Vernon" Story

It was an ordinary day.  Reading about a couple who recently celebrated their 80th Anniversary.  Yes, you read that correctly!  They celebrated their 80th Anniversary!  My wife, Carol, and I have been married for 55 years and thought that was a long time, but it's nothing compared to Vernon and Angela Stinebaugh who celebrated 80 years of marriage on August 16, 2022.  Vernon said he calls his wife "The Angel of glad tidings and great joy."  She replies that her husband has been an anchor, a real anchor.  At 103 years of age, the Stinebaughs still share the spark that brought them together.  "Memory has been a very fortunate thing.  I can reminisce," Vernon said.  They first met at Manchester College in Indiana, when Angela spotted Vernon in the stairwell of the music department.  She says that she was really taken.  Vernon replied, "She didn't say which way."  Vernon asked Angela on a date.  He said that she gave him a big smile that he's never forgotten.  And, the rest is history...as they say.  After the wedding, Angela moved to Pennsylvania to become a teacher.  Once Vernon finished school in Indiana, he followed her to Pennsylvania.  They both say that while their love kept them devoted, it was music that drew them even closer.  "It was a nice addition.  A nice complement," Angela said.  With Vernon on the violin and Angela on the piano, they performed 123 concerts together over the years.  But, the achievement they are most proud of is the family they've built.  "Two daughters, three grandsons and five great-grandchildren," Angela said.  But, it wasn't always easy.  "We've been through all kinds of up and downs," Vernon said.  "Yes, we have," Angela said.  But, they've always prevailed.  They are still learning, even after 80 years of marriage.  Vernon says that, "We're learning a lot at this age.  Learning every day is so important."  And after 80 years, they both say they've learned the secret to a love that lasts.  "Be adaptable to life in whatever circumstance," Angela said.  "I don't need to say more than, 'Amen to that,'" Vernon said.  They both claim that 80 years of marriage is the Oak Anniversary, symbolizing the strength and longevity of the oak tree and a deeply rooted love for one another.  My wife and I recently celebrated 55 years of marriage and I thought that was a fabulous accomplishment, but 80 years is UNBELIEVABLE.  

Angela and Vernon Stinebaugh

I'm not sure I ever knew anyone who was 103 years old.  And, its hard to believe, by looking at their photograph, that they are that old.  Congratulations go out to the fantastic couple!  It was another extraordinary day in the life of an ordinary guy.